In the end you've got to be your own hero, because everybody is busy trying to help themselves.
Is it selfish to wonder why people aren't there for us the way we want them to be. What about them? Who is worrying about them? What if they are facing battles we couldn't begin to imagine. Maybe if we think about them more often we we can learn to be more grateful. Gratitude is one of the first steps to being happy and should be counted as a blessing. We need to learn how to turn our calamities into occasions of joy and not let our problems control us. At the end of the day it is not their fault that we are feeling down and its not fair to hold them responsible. People are humans just like us and sometimes there is nothing they can do to make us feel better, in fact they may need help themselves.I have spent a lot of my days feeling lonely and helpless as I failed to realise this. There is no point waiting up for people to fix your problems as in the end, people will come and go. You must learn how to rely on yourself and make yourself feel better. Sometimes that is the only way.
